A variation of Asian Cowgirl, and is basically the same position as the regular Cowgirl except that the receiver is facing away from her partner with her landing on the bed instead of doing the kneeling position.
How to do it:
- 1. Find a flat, comfortable surface; a mattress is preferable or on a carpeted floor as well. The man should lie down on his back.
- 2. With her back turned towards her partner, the woman should straddle the man's hips with her legs bent at the knees and pressed flat against the mattress or floor.
- 3. The woman should lower herself onto her lover's organ so that it will penetrate her vagina from behind.
- 4. Thrust and repeat. Since the man's flat on his back, the woman's responsible for providing the motion (moving up and down and rocking back and forth) to stimulate both partners.
- 5. Take the reins in your hands. You can both use your hands and fingers to stimulate one another. The woman can easily reach down and caress the man's testicles or her clitoris. The man can run his hands down her back, buttocks and sides, or reach up and fondle her breasts from behind.
- 6. Change speeds and alter angles (up-and-down, side-to-side). Tease your partner by slowing almost to a stop, and then picking up the pace again.
Why it is good:?
- You both have benefit of having complete control of thrusting, angle, and movement over how fast, how deep and at what angle you find pleasurable.
- This creates G-spot stimulation for her and the change will help you hold out longer.
- It allows the person on the bottom to have a particularly good view of their partner’s bum, the woman on top can see more herself having sex than if she were lying down.
- This is a very popular twist to the regular Cowgirl position it is definitely a must try for those that can!
- The position allows for far deeper penetration than others.
- For the women, it allows for easier clitoral stimulation.
Possible Problems:
- One partner is doing most of the work in this position, so you might not consider it completely equitable. This position can be extremely difficult and tiring for many receivers, so their partner should offer some support using their hands whenever possible.
- If it’s a one night stand you shouldn't be having, you are both able to not look at the other.
- If you like a lot of physical contact with penetration, this isn’t the position for you.